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1. \u505c\u6b62\u88ab\u4eba\u60f9\u6012 Stop being offended.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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2. \u653e\u6389\u60f3\u8981\u8d0f\u7684\u9700\u8981 Let go of your need to win.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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3. \u653e\u6389\u60f3\u8981\u6b63\u78ba\u7684\u9700\u8981 Let go of your need to be right.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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4. \u653e\u6389\u60f3\u6bd4\u5225\u4eba\u512a\u8d8a\u7684\u9700\u8981 Let go of your need to be superior.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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5. \u653e\u6389\u60f3\u5f97\u5230\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u9700\u8981 Let go of your need to have more.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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6. \u653e\u6389\u4ee5\u6210\u5c31\u611f\u4f86\u7372\u5f97\u8eab\u4efd\u8a8d\u540c\u7684\u9700\u8981 Let go of identifying yourself on the basis of your achievements.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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7. \u653e\u6389\u4f60\u7684\u540d\u8072Let go of your reputation.<\/span><\/h3>\n

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